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writes:I've realized I've fallen for a guy friend from a class. But he had a gf for over 3 years. I know he sees me as a friend, but with the way he's been so friendly and loving and compassionate to me, becoming my friend, I've realized I've fallen in love. Last night after class I cried, and that's when I knew it.I'll be seeing him for a couple more weeks for class, and then we're celebrating my birthday together with a bunch of friends at an event, and his gf will be there one day. I'll die.How can I get over him and just accept it, even though I think he's totally into me but is loyal to his gf and won't break up with her for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, RosesAndLove +, writes (12 May 2010):
It's hard. I'm in the same situation, but you need to respect him and his girlfriend. Just try and get through the next few weeks... If they break up then maybe you guys can get together, but it'd be best if you just try to wait it out. Sorry if this isn't that much help.
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