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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Well i know exes are meant to be forgotten in the past. I thought I was over mine. We haven't spoken for some 4 months due to my insistence that I don't want to talk to him anymore or him to call me. But the other night I was just alone and too bored at home and I decided to send him a greeting on text. He replied so fast and I know I should've left it at that but I replied until he wanted to come drop by to talk to me. He did come.The ending, I didn't know why I said yes but I ended up going to his house and we had sex in his room. It seemed so unreal. He wanted me to sleep over like I used to before but I said I needed to go home. The food he prepared for me I left untouched, then he drove me home at 4am. I wish I had just tasted it so at least I can show him that I appreciate his gesture.Anyway, as he was driving me home, he asked if maybe I know a job vacancy somewhere, to give him a call just in case. But when we arrived infront of my house, he said he will keep in touch.It's been 7 days and I never called him but he never called me too. Does this sound like we just both played at each other? Or was I fooled by him? I don't know whose court is the ball in right now...any opinions pls?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (8 May 2010):
Yes! Be more philosophical about those detours in life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL we served each other as booty calls actually. Anyway, 90% i am okay with it, no probs. I guess it would be better if no one between us starts off anything again, whether something for sex or friendship so things will not be complicated again. I will just leave it that way and pretend it was a dream.
Thanks guys.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (7 May 2010):
The ball is now out of play and someone has to throw the ball back into play again.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 May 2010):
I am in complete and sincere agreement with the statements made by Ask Older Sister.
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