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*irvana838
writes:So I posted a question about a month ago looking for help. My girlfriend had broken up with me because she wanted to be single but still wants to be with me eventually. So I've taken a hands off approach. She still texts me and calls me but we only see eachother once a week, mondays are "our days." So this past Monday was the first time in 2 years we didn't see eachother. Now she's texting me and asking me if I want to go away for the weekend. Get a hotel room at the beach and it be just me and her. I don't know what to do. On one hand I would love to see her and spend time with her but on the other I don't want to get my hopes up and get hurt. What should I do?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 If you think there is no chance of a relationship,then you should not go .
She broke up with you and you still meet regularly. She could be exploiting you or taking advantage of you .
Maybe, she may want to reconnect back with you again. You will have to feel her out.
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reader, Nirvana838 +, writes (7 May 2010):
Nirvana838 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo, actually we don't sleep together anymore. I genuinely love her and any time we can spend together is worth it to me.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Don't get you hopes up and make a clean break away from her.
You're not in a relationship with her, but you're not free to find someone else. She is not in a relationship with you, and, who knows, one day you might find out that a significant other does exist on her side.
I suppose you have sex on Mondays and that is why you're still there?
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