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Management tell me I'm good at my job but I'm worried I am quiet and might seem weak or uninterested.

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Question - (6 May 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This isn't really a problem but I just wanted some thougts.

In my current job management always tell me in my reviews that they don't mean to ignore me as they don't really involve themselves with me because I just get on and do my work. They are always complimentary and say nice things about and I do work hard. I am probably the quieter 1 in the team, the rest always have something to moan about or have opinions- I'm not so forthcoming but any issues I do raise it but I don't kick off.

They have said often that I don't cause any trouble and they wish the rest were like me.

I don't know whether it's a good thing as I don't want to be seen as weak or uninterested- this has never been said to me.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2010):

No, it is a good thing, and they've told you that. But actually being too quiet can sometimes does mean that you are overlooked for bigger opportunities. I'd suggest that if you're up for it, you talk to management again and ask them how you can get ahead with your work, and that you'd be ready to fight hard for any promotions that come your way. The best way to get ahead is to work hard, but to also make sure that when a big opportunity comes along, they know that you'll jump at the chance to take it on. Continue to work hard, but don't be afraid to ask for bigger challenges either. They'll look at you more if they just know that you're ready to work.

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