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*r0wn18
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years already, In the beginning of the relationship we would always spend time together because he lived around me, after a year things started going down hill , not because of the relationship, but because of how our "Life" situations affected our relationship. First off, he crashed his car and it affected how often we saw each other, and then he moved and now lives with his dad and his step family in Pearland,Tx opposing that I live in Houston, Tx. We live around 30-40mins away, and it made me feel like the distance affected how we felt about each other we argued and were always mad at each other because all I wanted was to be with him like how we use to spend time with one another, after time things changed and we fought constantly , broke up a lot and always seemed to come running back to each other the couple of times I was the one who broke up with him, mainly because I couldn't trust him (Because of the distance) and now it's still affecting our relationship because he's far away and is always working or busy when he's home.. we talk, but he lives a busy lifestyle... so I want to know if I should trust him and stop worrying so much? or if I'm over exaggerating, because I get mad and worry and accuse him of cheating? and then the fights break out. He says that I need to trust him because all that I've put him through has changed his love towards me but that he still loves me ,but I need to grow up and understand,because all he expects is a woman to trust him (Me). So what should I do about the situation I'm in? Do you think I'm asking for too much, or is it that I'm ready for things to change for the best?
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reader, Br0wn18 +, writes (6 May 2010):
Br0wn18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much. I'm trying my best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): I can understand your worried about him perhaps being unfaithful because you're in a ldr. However, I surely get his point as well that trust is a major factor on any relationship if you want things to work. Unless you have solid proof that he's straying I'd look to yourself and ask why you're feeling insecure about things. If you truly love him, and want to make things work learn to trust him.
Good luck
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