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36-40,
anonymous
writes:so my ex and i broke up like a month ago we still talk now and then (well he initiates it)he comes over and talk (no sex)and i told him that i think that we should move on that i cannot keep doing that, he told me that he does not want me with anyone that we are working things out but as far as i know i have nothing to work on he is the one that messed up, there is no trust in the relationship and i am not going to sit down and wait for him (that is what he wants me to do)until he is ready, why waste time when i could find someone else and be happy with them, why do u think he is doing that?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Well then, I'll have to say that he loves you and that's why he's doing what he's doing. If you don't love him, don't let him be doing what he's doing.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 Says a requiem for his poor soul!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the comment but i dumped him!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (7 May 2010):
He is trying to work things out with you but it looks like your heart has died .He is trying to revive your heart and make you love him again.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 May 2010):
Odd behavior. I could almost say it's inappropriate of him to want to keep you on a leash after HE dumped you.
All right, I'll say it: it's inappropriate of him to want to keep you on a leash after HE dumped you.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 If he is the one who broke up with you, then it is very selfish of him to not want you to be with other people. If you don't want him back, just stop seeing him for a while and move on.
If you want him back, then you have to wait and go through the misery of "working things out".
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reader, raiders +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Cut contact with your ex its to soon to be friends the break up hasn't even that long...don't answer his calls and keep your distance he might think there is still a chance and by you allowing him to hang around is giving him reason to think so.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): Probably because you let him. If you don't want to work things out, stop talking to him and letting him come over. You're sending a mixed message.
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