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writes: What am I to do with my girlfriend?I'm sorry but I hardly ask for advice. But me and my girlfriend have been fighting constantly for a while now. She says she wants to leave but the funny thing is that she hasn't lifted a finger to save our relationship. She always put her friends first (I hate that). She is very unappreciative (the little things woman like she doesn't appreciate). And she wants to leave?? I mean I have tried to fix our relationship but ohh no going to parties and talking to her stupid friends was more important than talkig things out with me!! So what am I to do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (6 May 2010):
Why would she try and make things better when she obviously doesn't want to stay in the first place? You try and work on a relationship when you don't want to let go. You don't try and make it work when you don't want to be in said relationship.
She wants out, and it sounds like you agree that you can find someone better for you.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (6 May 2010):
Why would she try and make things better when she obviously doesn't want to stay in the first place? You try and work on a relationship when you don't want to let go. You don't try and make it work when you don't want to be in said relationship.
She wants out, and it sounds like you agree that you can find someone better for you.
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reader, veronika +, writes (6 May 2010):
Well, it's obvious she doesn't care about the relationship, so that's obviously why she hasn't "lifted a finger" to save it. She doesn't want to save it.
Just let her go, you deserve better than someone who doesn't give a crap.
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reader, Br0wn18 +, writes (6 May 2010):
Obviously you love her, and your trying but if she loved/cared for you she'd care about your feelings and maybe she just wants to do her own thing. She's not obligated to be with you she wants to live life, she's running over you and I think you need somebody who will make you happy.
- Married or not.
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