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He says I remind him of her -- what does that mean?

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Question - (6 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello! I am very much in love with my boyfriend of almost two years. My boyfriend left his girlfriend of two years for me. We met at a rehab facility and she was in jail. We instantly moved in together. There have been numerous times that he has told me that I remind him of her. Not in bad ways, but in good ways, like we have the same quirks and the way that I do things remind him of her. He has told me this at least five times!! What does this mean?

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (6 May 2010):

Carrot2000 agony auntI think it means that you share qualities that he finds attractive in a woman. It's not okay that he compares you to her, though, even if it is a favorable comparison. Like Caring Guy said, you're an individual and you should be foremost in his mind.

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A female reader, purple_butterfly Canada +, writes (6 May 2010):

Hm..I personally dont think it should mean anything. Well ask him and clarify it with him. It is better to straight up ask him than forming assumptions.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (6 May 2010):

It means he still wants her, not you. If you're reminding him of her, then he's still thinking about her. You are your own person, and he should be thinking of that, not talking about how he is reminded of her.

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