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writes: My ex's parents do not like me. I don't think her dad is too fond of me but she said that today she heard her mom say to someone on the phone that she hates me. We are trying to work on our relationship and get back together but I'm afraid this will get in the way and i want to fix it.The thing is now that her mom recently found out that I do not believe in god. Her family is pretty religious, which is fine with me. I honestly don't really care about any of it. People can believe what they want and I am open to learning more about religion. It's just my opinion that god doesn't exist. I've even gone to church with them.I hate people like her that judge people on their beliefs. Just because I don't believe in what she does she thinks I'm a bad person or something? i am a great guy, I'm nice and I treat their daughter extremely well. What can i do to show them that my lack of belief doesn't affect the person i am and make them like me again?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 There is nothing you can do here.
You said,
Just because I don't believe in what she does she thinks I'm a bad person or something?
YES. That's what they believe. And they have already toyed with the idea that they might be wrong, and have concluded they aren't. Be a practical guy and don't even try to tell the parents that they are wrong. Try to get the girl's heart back. Tell her you don't believe in their things, and they can take you as you are or not. And that's it!
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