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writes:There's a boy I love and I told him how I feel for him. After that, I tried to contact him to talk to him more about it and find out how he feels for me. He stop all comunicational links to me and, now, I don't understand much. We were very good friends, maybe not close friends, but, still, we were friends. I've talked to other women how've been in the same situation, but the all say something different. My question is: Based on what has happened between me and him, how do you think he feels about me personally? And, why would he block my comunications with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blod  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 I don't think he knows how he feels. It sounds like you've really freaked him out! He probably thought of you as just friends, so telling him you like him must have shocked him. I don't think he knows how to behave around you now and, by stopping all communications, he can avoid any awkward moments. That's the main reason I think he's stopped talking to you.
I think he just sees you as a friend, but normally they would let you know that you're just friends. So he could be very confused about how he feels. When someone tells you that they like you, you can start to see them in a different way. He might be trying to work out how he feels. Time will tell.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Because you were friends and maybe he wanted to be just that - friends, without romantic undertones. Out of the blue he gets a sort of love declaration and he is embarassed. Rather than rejecting you openly he prefers to cut contact. Not nice of him, ok-but at his age he has not learned yet how to handle these situations properly.
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reader, xnickx +, writes (27 May 2010):
 here. a little personal story. Me and my girlfriend just broke up 2 days ago. Why? its not that i dont have feelings for her, i still deeply care for her, its just that she came on too strong. Started talking about marriage, having kids in the future, and was dead serious. When things started getting worse, she told me she'd kill herself if i ever left her and she needs me that much. we're both 17.
Thats when i had to break it off. Not so she'd kill herself, but because felt so trapped. I plan on getting back together with her if she can maybe not get as obsessive.
Moral of the story is that he may have just not been ready to hear that. Give him time, treat him like a friend, and don't obsess. if he likes you back in the same way, he already knows how you feel about him and will reciprocate.
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reader, tattoo  +, writes (27 May 2010):
He probably is very confused and wondering what the hell where did this come from you love me. It was too much for him to handle so give him space and if he doesnt get intouch with you too hell with him it isnt worth it.
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