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writes:I have been with this guy for four years and I am starting to feel like he is constantly lying. He told me he quit all of the illegal activities (drugs/sellin) years ago but yesterday was on his FB and a chat popped up and this chick is complaining about this bag of weed she got and I confronted him about it and he said he just told her where to get it and I am not comfortable believing him. Could I be completely wrong in assuming he sold it? He said she was mad because he told her who to go to. I dont want any part of this, but if he only told her where to go should I be mad? She never came straight out and said he sold it to her, but was sure in a hurry to show him the bag. I understand guilty by association, but he swears he is innocent and that I am wrong. OMG! I am so confused! Please help.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 May 2010):
 My best friend's little brother used to move weight, big time. He hasn't in over a decade, but people still constantly ask him if he knows where to get any. It's a part of being in the "underground world" so to speak. He probably didn't sell it. It is pretty difficult to hide that activity, especially if you are together a lot.
Is his phone always ringing? Does he have to leave at odd times? Does he have a cash flow that exceeds his job? Is he working?
When someone is dealing, they are constantly "on the job." If that isn't the case, then he is likely not dealing again.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 After four years you really have to decide if you trust him or not. His story sound perfectly beleivable but still something you should keep an eye on. If this was a part of his past then it will come up for a long time with people who want to know where to get drugs but you really have to either go by his word or leave him. Look for other signs than this because this isn't a good one to base a decision on and if nothing comes up then you'll have to let it go if you want the relationship to continue.
Best of luck to you.
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