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writes:I have a friend who is going through a tough time at the moment. She is sometimes arguing with my other friend and she sometimes argues with another girl. She is always complaining about how hard her life is. She gets really upset if you say anything to her which could possibly be taken in the wrong way (e.g. ''you look really nice today'' ''did you think there was something wrong with me yesterday'') She is rude to me all of the time but i can't pluck up the courage to say something to her. When i say i need to talk to her i always back out at the last second. She gets really angry at me.I'm really not sure what to do about it... Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 I think it is wise to get off the track when you see a run away train heading in your direction.
Don't stand in the path of that crazy train. You will only be run over.
You can't stop the train , it will have to stop by itself.
If a friend is angry at me for no particular reasons, I will just avoid them . I will not be their punching bag.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010): She might not know how to vent her feelings and emotions to you guys. But right now she needs your support, even if she is acting "rude." A good friend is one who tries to understand the situation and support their friends in any way they can. If down the road she continues to get an attitude and turn away from you, then you might just have to let her go her own way. But before that can happen, you should really try to understand her, show her love and be a shoulder for her to lean on.
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