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female
age
51-59,
*ickey
writes:My husband has been cheating on me for years with his brothers wife. I never could understand why she was phoning him constanly. I even tried to talk to her about it. She later started spreading rumours about me. Telling people, my husband included that I was a whore. I was and still am very committed to my husband and my children. While he was out every night and weekend I was the one looking after the children and at home. I never could understand why she hated me this much. I saw photos on his cell, photos he took of her breasts. I found a love letter that she wrote to him but again he denied everything. I even went to my attorney. She wrote her her letter took keep out of my marriage. Last week I found e-mails between them. He admitted to her that he will always love her and that she will always be no 1 in his life. She answered by saying that she was missing their time together. I forward the mail to my mailbox. I confronted them the next day. Again he was making up stories. I found another e-mail where she asked him to send his reply to my to her. This make me sick. She knows every detail of my life. He discussed my sad and happy moments with her. He even lied about many things. I cannot bear this pain that I feel inside. I know that at the moment my strenght comes form The Lord.If he touches me I think of her and I dont think that I can go through with this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): Pack your bags or kick him out. You do not have a marriage. Your hb cares nothing for your pain. You deserve better. Just believe this and start a new life without him or her.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (28 May 2010):
 Your brother in law don't care if she screws other man including your husband are you going to have the same attitude as him and not care. This women will not leave your husband if she can have both man wrap around her little finger. You have to look at yourself in the mirror hold your head up high and walk away from this marriage. Put your self first and leave the trash behind.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 May 2010):
End it.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (27 May 2010):
 It's not his problem that his wife has been carrying on a long term affair with his brother?? That should just about tear it right in two, sister. Have this guy served with papers and go have a good life with a good man somewhere. Good luck going forward!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): I really do feel for you being in such a predicament !
Walk away with your head held high and your self respect still intact.
You're husband and this manipulative woman - are best left to there own devices. One day he will realise what a good woman he has left behing.
I really do wish you all the best , take care x
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reader, Nickey +, writes (27 May 2010):
Nickey is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI tried to speak to his brother, but he told me that it is not his problem. I think his living in denial.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (27 May 2010):
Honestly, I do know how you could go on with this! This is wrong on so many levels that it's astounding. I'm very sorry to hear that you're in the predicament you find yourself.
Let us review: You've confronted them both and yet they carry on.
Your attorney fired a shot across the bow and still it goes on.
Have you tried to tell his brother about this, yet?
3 shots across the bow is plenty of warning. I think your next move is going to need to be dragging out the full compliment of artillery, sister. What's there to salvage or try to save here?
I think the next letter from your attorney needs to be the cover for legal proceedings.
Get rid of this louse. With any luck, his brother will unload her as well and they can be happy together.
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