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41-50,
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writes:Guys i need your help.i met this guy 2years ago while i was a student.we were head over heels about each other.we had a very great sex,letme say he was simply irrestible.he has a son,he told me his son's mother is married to another man.things stayed pretty between us even after i completed my studies.we stay 100km away from each other so i would see him everyweek.one february nite we were sleeping when this woman walked in with luggages.we were both shocked.i couldnt sleep in the same room with her so i asked him to drive me home.on the way is when he told me that that woman is his son's mother:she went to the states where she was working as a nurse.we slept inmy place and he went home the following day.that was last i heard from him.he stopped taking my calls,didnt reply to my messages,he even changed his number.two weeks ago i met anada guy.we started flirting.yesterday i went to my college to collect my diploma.i bumped to him.there was this strong chemistry between us.he asked to drive me home.we chatted along the way,it felt like old times.things got out of hand so we ended onmy bed.i missed sex,so i got carried away.he told me how much he loved me and that he doesnt stop thinking of us.he asked me for another chance.my problem is he doesnt want to talk about that woman,he wont explain why he chose to disapear.shud i take him back or take yesterday as a 1stand for ex lovers?i was deeply hurt by his disapearance.how do i trust that he is back to stay?i was starting 2like dis new guy.hes rich and im uneployed sory 4da lont text bt thanx 4reading.any input wl do
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): Away, away, get yourself away from this person!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Trust him at your own perils!!! He has such a long record and if you trust him , you will go down the same road again.
Some men will never change. They will lie to get what they want. Some can even talk to those birds high in the trees and persuade them to fly down to land on their hands.
To them , the ends justifies the means.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 No,you cannot trust him. His child's mother is supposedly married with someone and ,once she comes back from abroad, rather than going home to her husband, she goes to your bf's place ??? Oh please. He must have told you a lot of lies even before disappearing on you. And right now, hemight still be with her, or be willing to be with you just because she has left again - how could you possible know ?
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