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writes:I just have a horrible feeling now, I'm dating with my boyfriend for a year and after Ive graduated, he helped to get a job and that's the beginning of this messy problem for me,...He called his friend just to help me to get a job in the same company with his friend.. and for the first time I've met his friend, He totally got my eyes and I thought he felt the same way. I saw his quick glance at me sometimes... during our conversation my BF brought up the topic that his friend would get marry soon (I don't know if that's a joke or the truth), but his friend immediately refused that He has no GF... Thats the first moment that I feel something strange with this man. and then...I started working, we spend time together but not all the time, he always comes up to my division(he"s at 3rd floor, I'm at 4th), out to lunch..I feel so guilty, because If I really like this person, and he likes me back... that would be a huge mistake. It's just like I hurt my BF by using his kindness as a weapon...but I just cant stop having feeling for this guy, honestlyshould I make a move or give up with this and stand to work in the same company?I sense that he has feeling for me too but we just cant express it out, cos I am his friend's GF
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (27 May 2010):
Leave your boyfriend, save him the hurt of getting screwed over by his girlfriend and friend
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reader, louisevandeburg  +, writes (27 May 2010):
It's tough, but you have to think about how long you've known each of them - as you say, your boyfriend has been there with you for over a year and helped you so much, whereas you have just met this friend.
If you are sure that it is the friend you want, leave your boyfriend. All I'm suggesting is that you reconsider - sometimes couples that have been together for a while get bored with each other, try to rekindle the passion!
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