A
female
age
36-40,
*itastipp
writes:My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years and he has a son from a previous and we have 2 kids together.Im a stay at home mommy looking to go back to school. we met right away got married right away then had our first child right after. ever since we have been married i have been catching him in a lie all the time, and i would confront him about something and he gets defensive. he would go out almost every weekend and come home about 4 to 5 in the morning and have glitter on his neck and i would ask him where he has been and he tells me something different from what i already know. he also accuses me of cheating on him and lying but i dont know why i would cheat when i have 3 children to take care of. he also can be a jerk one day and the next day he is very affectionate. I dont understand whats going on. Im confused and need some advice. so i want to know if he is cheating on me or is he just insecure?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): Hun, he is cheating.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (28 May 2010):
 No happily married man goes out every weekend and stays out until 4-5am. It just doesn't happen. You have good reason to be concerned.
If he's lying to you, you'll have to get help and catch him in the act. Men who are cheating will often try to smokescreen by accusing their wife of cheating.
I'd invest in a private investigator if you're interested in getting undisputable proof. Then I'd plan an "exit strategy" before confronting him with the proof.
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