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writes: Should I be offended if my bf chooses to go in on a b.day gift with his sister instead of with me for one of his parents? I asked him first and he said he wanted to ask his sister first. We've been dating over a year and are in a serious relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Three heads are better than two.He acted right and saved the day. That is life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI ended up worrying over nothing. He asked his sister in front of me what she got their mom and then made suggestions for us on what to get her. And she even suggested us going in together on something.
It turned out fine. We did end up going in on a gift.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (28 May 2010):
I think you should just accept it, as old habits are difficult to change.
He may not be aware of your feelings as most guys cannot see from your perspective. You could give your suggestions to him and let him decide .This should not be an issue.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 May 2010):
I think he probably went with his sister because he and his sister will know more about what their parents will like. I don't think it's anything to worry about.
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