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30-35,
*kir
writes:So my ex and me have been talking and she just wants to be friends and that me being paranoid, jealous and other things has put her off me. I feel such a fool and trust me I know I was wrong and I just want to show her that I have changed and I'm willing to take it slow with her if she'll give me a chance. I asked her if she wanted to meet up, just as friends (I didn't say that though just asked her to meet up for an hour in town) and she said she was busy, then I asked her another time then and she said it would be too awkward with how things are, is this a good sign that maybe she still has feelings or a bad sign?Also what is the best way of showing her I have changed and maybe getting her to be with me again. We were happy and i started getting paranoid at one point and that lead us to the breakup ultimately, she is also pregnant with my baby, about 12 weeks.
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reader, garcypher +, writes (27 May 2010):
Jealousy is an irrational fear of losing someone you love.It can lead to violence and mood swings. It needs to be controlled, or all is lost. I know this because I've been there myself. You can only hope she will listen to you enough to give you another chance, then you must show her that you can keep control of yourself.You must show her that you trust her.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 The best way is to be her friend, keep in touch and show you care about her. Over time she will realize that you have changed but it will take time to build the trust back up. It does sound like she wants you there and that it should go slow but I think she wants you to be with her to raise the child.
Try to be patient and show her you that you have changed little by little and it will all work out in the end.
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