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*dkwhat2do911
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years and we decided to take a break last october, I got pregnant in December by him.Im 13 1/2 weeeks now and I just found out he has another girl pregnant right now she is about 7 weeks.what should I do? should I get an abortion?she wouldn't get one.This would be my first child and now it doesn't seem special.
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reader, idkwhat2do911 +, writes (27 March 2010):
idkwhat2do911 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your feedback
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reader, Zoe-louisexx  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Your child should feel special by both parents. Your bf needs to decide who hes going to be with but at the same time help with the other baby. Talk with him about this but dont let him tell you what to do with the baby because its your body and up to you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 March 2010):
A child should feel special no matter what. Just because your boyfriend got another girl pregnant doesn't make your own baby any less special. If you're measuring a baby on how special it is against how bad you feel that your boyfriend cheated, then you should see a doctor because you might be suffering from depression. Also, see a counsellor, because you have a lot of feelings you need to go through and understand. Your baby is special and nothing can change that. Only you can decide whether you want to abort it or not though. You need to do the right thing for you, and before you can decide, it's worth talking to a doctor.
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