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writes:My girlfriend and I are on the same cell phone plan and I pay the bill every month. When I paid this months bill I saw that she was talking to someone late at night for 216 minutes. We have been going out for 4 years. Do you think I have the right as her boyfriend to ask who that is? And if I do how should I say it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): Since she agreed to be on your cell phone plan and have you pay for it she has to know that you can see her calls and the phone numbers, etc. She also has to realize if you are paying the bill that she has to respect the number of minutes and texts available to you monthly.
Teach her how to check the balance of minutes remaining and texts so that you don't get stuck with a huge phone bill unexpectedly and you will need to keep tabs on that as well. She obviously is long winded and maybe a little to attached to her phone.
I think if you are paying the bill and you are in a relationship that is serious and exclusive you both should be an Open Book to each other. If you have nothing to hide you should hide nothing. You have a right to ask her that question, just do it in a non accusatory tone but that you didn't know she had any friends that she talked to late at night for that long. (I bet it was one of her girlfriends, we can go on forever)
Just don't be the traffic cop of her phone, if you trust her, then trust that she isn't talking to anyone she shouldn't be and why would she? You can see her phone bill.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (26 March 2010):
 You have all the right to ask her about it and not just because ur payin the bill but also because ur her bf. Just be like hey i noticed uve bn talkn 2 someone at this number pretty late for long periods of time n i was just wondering who it was!? Then just go from there. good luck.
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