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writes:mi feel jealous of my bf's web usage. we live together. he still meets girls online. he keeps his singles/dating profile active. he tells me they are just friends that he chats with. what gives? i don't know what to think. to me this is cheating. is he looking for someone else? is this an addiction? he says he is not a cheater. he avoids discussing the subject.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 He does not think deeply and thinks that it is only innocent chatting and is harmless.
He does not realize that it could lead to cheating and he definitely enjoys flirting with those girls online.
You will need to put your foot down and if he does not comply , you would have to mirror back his actions to him.
Go online and flirt with all those males online and let him see what you are doing.
He can't feel the pain when the knife does not cut him.
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reader, needadvice101 +, writes (27 March 2010):
 well why is he doing this? is it just for fun? sounds a little weird maybe you should just say you know tht sometimes online dating can be innapropriate and would he be ok with you doing this online dating thing?? it doesnt make sense if your in a relationship...if he ever brings up something serious or when you have his full attention bring it up so he cant blow you off.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Well, if he wont bring it up, your gonna have to, and keep pushing it on him to tell you, or well, honestly this is what id do, try to find a pasword and look at his things, thats bad i know, but if u wanna avoid the disscusion and to get the facts, cause he could lie if you try and talk to him
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Your boyfriend has way overstepped the boundaries.
There's nothing wrong with talking to PLATONIC female friends. The trouble is that your boyfriend is presenting himself as single and available and he's meeting girls for more than friendship. He's a player and a jerk. He can say he's not a cheater all day, but actions speak louder than words. He's not treating you right; you deserve to be with someone who will take you seriously and who has a sense of commitment.
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