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Do I fancy my teacher? Does he fancy me? What should I do?

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Question - (26 March 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ish mash writes:

Hi,

I am new to this site but I was wondering if you could answer my question. I have this science teacher let's call him luke. Luke has been my science teacher for 3-4 years now (by the way I'm in secondary school.) He has been my favourite teacher ever since he started the school which is also when he started teaching me. These feelings have grown and I think I may fancy him but he also acts funny around me. When I walk passed him in school I go speachless, we both say hi and smile at one and other. But in his lesson when ever he changes the seating plan I'm always in the same place (right infront his desk) which I don't mind. When I put my hand up to ask a question he will always answer mine first, he also sits on my desk and has a general chat with me during the lesson. Be always asks me to stay behind after the lesson and just talks to me about family and life, he offers to take me home and invites me to catch up classes where we do nothing but talk.

We are 10 years of age apart. He is the only teacher I can talk to. I know it is wrong to have a studant teacher relationship so if I can't go out with him I really would love him to be my dad (even though this will never happen) but could you help me.... I don't know whether I should tell him I fancy him or tell him my feelings? And does he fancy me?

Thank you

Xxx

P.S sorry for my spelling! ;)

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A female reader, absolute United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

Hey there!

I wanted to add you to my friends, but I have no idea how to.. I'm new to this site. Anyways, you and I could have a lot to talk about since I have the same issue so if you know how to message me or add me plz go for it =)

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A female reader, absolute United States +, writes (8 April 2010):

Hey there!

I wanted to add you to my friends, but I have no idea how to.. I'm new to this site. Anyways, you and I could have a lot to talk about since I have the same issue so if you know how to message me or add me plz go for it =)

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A female reader, Mish mash United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2010):

Mish mash is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Ok! Thank you! ;) x

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A male reader, kevin3007 United States +, writes (28 March 2010):

kevin3007 agony auntgreat job young girl don't answer them back and that's not right that he's texting you the trip is over so what does he want!!...just act like you don't care about him stay away from him and i am sure he'll understand and realize that he's a teacher and you're a student ...girl make limits don't let him cross them .......good luck .

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A female reader, Mish mash United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2010):

Mish mash is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I know he will get into trouble if anything happens! Thank you both! :) but I do have another question: For a school science trip we had to give the teachers our mobile numbers.. And vice versa! Is it right that it has now been a month since that trip and he's texting me?.... I don't answer them back! Thanks! :)

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A male reader, kevin3007 United States +, writes (27 March 2010):

kevin3007 agony auntyou know what? i think that you fancy him but he doesn't i think that he likes you as a student because maybe you're the best in his class and he feels comfortable when he talks to you ...in my opinion don't tell him how you feel about him that will ruin what you guys have and he'll avoid you stay best friends and maybe you mixed up your feelings and you didn't understand them well it's happens a lot especially in your age but trust me you'll forget him with time and you'll find your prince in your age so enjoy your life young girl

ps:dreaming a lot in his class will affect your grades and that will disapoint him so be the first and make him proud!

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A female reader, witch-fire United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2010):

witch-fire agony auntHi,

teachers are forbidden to date their students. So it will never happen. Try and find a nice guy at school. He will get in loads of trouble if he did start a relationship with you.

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