A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:what can i do? please help! my boyfriend moved here from india two years ago. we have been dating about six months. im an american girl. we are in our 20s. his family back home is having tons of problems and he set his mind to go over there and fix whatevers wrong, despite the fact it would affect his school and work greatly. i point this out but he said his parents come first, no matter what, its his duty, and its even more important than his own life. he said he is going for 3 months, but if they ask him to stay in india, he wont come back. i am totally in love with him. the thought of never seeing again is breaking my heart. and i think he will suffer too. i think if his parents do this they are selfish. hes not a kid. what do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): You do nothing about this man, and stop dating Indian guys again. Because in India parents come first and family is very very important. There is no way you are more important to this man than his parents, and you have to accept that. And for the future find a man who will put you first. Let this man go.
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