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*hick989
writes:basically my boyfriend acts really suspisious around his mobile phone. it's always in his pocket (along with his keys and his wallet) they never get left on the side and he makes a thing about how it's private to him etc. fair enough, i can see it from his point of view - he lived in a bed sit for ten years so obviously feels as though he's got nothing private to him. now he's living with his mum. last night his phone was on the arm of the chair, he went to the toilet and took it with him - i found it strange how he couldn't just leave it as i leave my phone around.he is in contact with the mother of his children as they are 14 and 16 - but she still calls him to get through to the kids when they are with him weekends - i find it strange how they have their own phones but she calls him. they have been split 15 years (she was his first love) and he sometimes compares me to her which i've told him i hate as it really makes me feel he's with me as last resort and if he could get back with her he would) he says he meant it in a good way. does he still have feelings for her because he always slags off her new husband of 13years. help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, raiders  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 His ex-wife is his past your his reality I would try not read to much into this. You just complained about his privacy towards his cell phone and wallet not about him being out all night, disappearing and you not knowing where he is at. I would not like for partner to invade my space by going through my purse or my phone mess that would anger me its my privacy getting violated. I say don't be so paranoid unless you are given reason, don't live in doubt enjoy your relationship and don't snoop in his things it might annoying .
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reader, boo22 +, writes (26 March 2010):
 You're only 21 if your age is right on here and he must be at least 15 years older than you if he has kids that old. It sounds extremely suspicious to me. Only people with something to hide take their phone to the toilet with them.
I understand his need for privacy in a bed sit scenario with strangers, but with his gf ? hmmm. If I were you i'd be looking elsewhere else for some lovin.
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