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writes:Is it love that i feel? Im unsure. Im sure it is, i mean ive alwyas said i truely love him but i just wondered if this truely love that i feel.Im good mates with this guy. We havent had the great past. I thought he liked me(i got told later on that was true) however some so called friends of ours didnt like the fact we were good friends and made it hard for us, so we never even spoke much. We;ve been getting on better recently and the people we hang out with seem to think he really likes me but hes to shy to say so. I always think about him, have done for afew years. However i love him i love the way he is how cute he is just his general personality. He's pretty good looking, hes not stunning or anything but hes good enough for me. Thing is he annoys the hell out of me, all the time just the fact he thinks hes so funny, but at the end of the day i guess its all why i like him so muhc. hes one of them people i jsut want to ram his head through a window. Obviously i wouldnt. We dont talk much he tends to talk to the others more than me and we only go out in a group, he wont seem to come out with me alone. We did once and neither of us knew what to say. We have in the past spent time alone and things were pretty good and we got quite cosey.I just sometimes sit there and think do i truely love him? because he just annoys me so much and i think hes so stupid but at the end of the day id be crushed if he got a gf or even if he got hurt. Im sure deep down i really do and although i have the moments when i think about us being together in the long run when i think i dont like him that much i always come back to the same conclusion - that i want him more than life. Is this really love?
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reader, Keira9312 +, writes (26 April 2010):
 I would have to say that you might be only a little attracted to him. You find that his attempts to be funny are annoying, but you also think that he is trying to impress you; it makes people feel good to know that someone may be into them. If you don't like that he doesn't talk much, and that when he does its not much to you, then you might not be fully in love. From reading your sentence "i would feel crushed if he got a gf" it made me think that you just like him as a good friend, and that you want him to keep trying to get your attention. If he had gotten a gf, his attempts for your attention would be slim.
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