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writes:Every time that this guy talks to me, I get as red as a lobster. I really like him, but I wish I could stay stealthy. Sometimes when he talks to me, he looks uncomfortable, and his eyes sometimes focus into mine, or dart around the room nervously. How can I still like him in secret without blushing or talking too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): It's nothing to be ashamed of! It makes the girl look really cute! It also makes the guy feel special and confident, so it's a good thing to do if you want him to ask you out. Especially if the guy is shy too, because if he doesn't see any signals like that, he might not bother asking. I'm a really shy guy and I was scared to death to flirt with the girl I liked or let her see my feelings. I was just so scared she would reject me. But she was really open about showing her feelings, so I felt more comfortable with her and we became really close. If she had never showed any interest I bet nothing would have happened. I really don't think any guys would be upset if you showed your feelings though! Even if he doesn't feel the same way I bet things would be OK.
Seriously, there's not much you can do. Just try to be yourself and don't try too hard to impress him or hide your feelings. If you really need it to be a secret, avoid him -- but I suspect you wouldn't like that, so just hang out with him. :)
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reader, Vicci  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 allow yourself to blush, its no big deal.
he might like you in secret aswell, and it may end up being your blushing that brings you together or somethign!
dont think too much about what you say, you want to come across as fun and happy and a good person to hang around with, and by allowing yourself to blush you are putting across that you are not fake.
sometimes the best stratagy is too just be yourself, corny, but if you be yourself the right things will happen with the right people x
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 blush away all you want,sweetheart.
If he does not like you, it's not that your blushing will make him hate you, probably he won't even pay attention to it.
and if he does like you... he'll find your blushing sweet and endearing and sort of cute.
Check the babling though- that's really annoying. Draw a few deep breaths before talking to him- to calm down. And make sure you speak slowly and articulating each word.
Good luck.
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