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writes:Hey :)well i would just some advice on something that has been bothering me.Basically about four months ago my dad died and ever since i have been doing things that i dont normally do like*going out into town*drinking*smokingand there was one night when i went into town with my friend and we brought her friends back to my house because my mum was away they were 2 boys aged 22 and me and her are 16! and to be honest i dont have a clue what happened all i remember is waking up with one of them fully clothed!!!!i feel so bad for lying. my mum thinks i am a good honest teenager.Why am i doing this is it because of my dad dying?please help xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): You world has been upside down, and you are acting out of character, you need to talk to you someone and pull yourself back before you damage your life. At least you can see the things you are doing are not right
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (25 April 2010):
 I'm sorry about your dad... it sounds like you're grieving. This behavior is really destructive though, and it needs to stop because you could do something you might regret for the rest of your life.
I could not agree more with CaringGuy. I think you need someone to talk to.
Good luck.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 April 2010):
I think so. Losing your Dad was probably a very bog shock, and perhaps rather than face everything head on and speak to someone or get help explaining how you feel, you're rebelling because it's out of character and for a while you're not acting like yourself, you're acting like someone else. The problem is that you're now becoming very unsafe and this could lead to danger. I don't think you're coping with your father's death as much as you think, so I would really suggest speaking to someone about it. You don't need to act this way to show you're upset.
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