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I keep running into that hot personal trainer, should I make a move?

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Question - (24 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *weet207 writes:

Okay, so I have been hitting the gym hard this year...really investing in my overall well being. Then one day as I 'm working out I notice this personal trainer and boy was he HOTTTTTT!!!! Killer body, beautiful smile, tall, i mean just gorgeous. Then one day when I was talking to another trainer he came over and said goodbye to me...weird but happy he spoke needless to say...Then a couple of days after that I saw him in the mall...weird again and we both spoke to one another...we just said hey because we were with people. Then finally he spoke to me today at the gym and told me his name and he asked me mine...ahhhhh!!! What does this mean??? i really like this guy...but i dont know if he likes me...am i trippin???? i get butterflies when i see him....have not felt this way in a while....i am not the aggressive type when it comes to relationships....should i just wait for him to make thee moves???? what do i do?????

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (24 April 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntSo far he's being nice and a good personal trainer. It doesn't mean anything and honestly, he probably is that nice to every lady who walks in the door. Wait for him to make a move; that will show you if he's truly interested or being professionally nice.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (24 April 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Wait for him to make his move.

I am not at all against women taking the initiative- when the guy is shy, when time is of essence, when for some reason there's a stalemate in communication.

But in your case, you've just seen him 3 times- for a bunch of seconds every time.

Too early to fret... and to early to decide he wants you.

Just let the events unfold some more.

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