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I've fallen for my son's friend!

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Question - (24 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A female South Africa age , *injive writes:

Hi I am confused 52 year old housewife with 5 children and some grandchildren but still are able to turn heads if I say so myself. It started when 1 friend of one of my sons and he is only 31 started flirting with me I saw nothing wrong until recently when I developed feelings for him. I went and told him I have feelings for him which I dont regret but am scared he might do something irresponsible. Honestly I enjoy the attention but what scares me the most is if this should get out. I sometimes find myself daydreaming if only ? I know it is ridiculous but the reality is I fell for my son's friend. Will I ever stand?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

I hadn't realized you are a housewife and married in the first response. My advice is to keep your feelings to yourself and start putting more of yourself into your own relationship with your husband. You are definitely heading of an embankment if you were to pursue your attraction to your son's friend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

Hello

follow your conscience otherwise you will mess up every thing that you have by now in the final phase of your life.

it is better if you can do some good things to your family before death. As compared to acting like 12 year old girl.

i do not know what to advise you, i am at age of your son and you are lot more experienced than me in life.

only advice is that respect your kids and grand kids and their life and think about them than having such an immoral thought in the mind. come on... he is friend of your son,, just like your son...you should have treated him as son and stopped even at the first sight when he showed the interest..

i can tell you that it is pure lust from his side and he want to fuck you around.. choice is yours..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

If you're single what have you to worry about? That you are human and are seeking companionship? You took the bull by the horns and if he were to boast inappropriately he would look childish and would never meet with you. If people talk so what. You don't need their approval to run your own life.

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