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writes:So I have been dating my bf for a few months now and well his whole story is a mess. I guess there was a girl he really cared about in hs and well he liked her alot like love i think she would be the love of his life. and well they couldn't be together because he messed up and then when they were finally about to work it out his then gf ended up pregnant. the other girl disappeared. and well the baby mama hates and hated her. so they lost contact and she recently contacted him after like 5years wishing him well and he got so happy and he was always logging on to his FB which he never did until then. and he updated stuff which he never does as well, he wanted to know everything he missed may i add he asked her for her number and she totally didn't even give it to him she ignored the question. she asked him if he was married and he said no he was a single dad he didn't even mention being in a relationship with me should i be suspicious? he turned into a player pretty much after he lost her, she has a bf and its all over he wall and picts but has not told him whats the deal?why did he want her number? why does he care about her after all this time? should i say something? he doesn't know i know this also he has no picts of me on his FB or being in a relationship or anything. whats his deal? btw I heard she was pretty and i thought ppl exaggerated but she really is : ( she is really pretty and i heard she is nice, and smart but then why aren't they together i heard she really liked him alot also and they even talked about kids and marriage in hs they were never actually a couple though. everyone knew about them though and their story and how he was crazy for her and how he broke her heart, and he always talked about her to his friends and sis , what gives! i am just mad i guess that he would do that isn't that disrespectful? i mean i really do see myself with this guy and this just hurts. should i contact the girl? she doesnt know he has a gf and she hasnt been all flirty and stuff if anything she is being i think a little hostile or guarded with him as he told her in one message that he really liked her alot and she seems not to even care. why would he say that if he has a gf? would a crush even matter?the girl that he got preg he got with her after the other girl moved. Because the other girl moved and lives in a different city now. idk i mean am i supposed to care? or am i over thinking it? they were never together or anything yet people assume they were since evryone knew how he felt about her this is a guy i can see myself but all these doubts i have idk.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): he wants is cake and eat it and also wants to cupacake on the side.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2010): I don't think he is quite over his player tendencies. From the looks of it he still has some feelings for her and obviously he has always been the type to be from one girl to the next since when he started his relationship with the first girl since he messed up as you said and maybe it had to do with cheating as well. It seems like a pattern he likes to have girls on a string and likes to know that they will always take him back. Also from what you said about neither of them mentioning they are in a relationship maybe its because they dont want to hurt eachother or something of that sort since maybe there was alot o pain there but since they both moved on i dont see why they wouldnt be able to tell eachother that. Maybe just Maybe they have that little voice telling them someday there will be a chance. If it bugs you that he talks to her let him know, you dont deserve to be his second choice. As it is clear that he doesnt want to hurt her, why is he hurting you? who is he in a relationship with you or her?YOU! he should care about not hurting you. Some relationships like theirs dont need to be labeled because from the looks of it you look at it as a crush yet she meant so much to him, sometimes in life something doesnt have to be labeled or defined to know that the love is there. Ive been through this before and thats why it caught my interest and honestly just be careful with him, how is he with his child? the baby mama? it seems like they're is alot going on. the girl you stated didnt give him er number so thats a good sign right? maybe you should be more guarded with him before he just leaves you for a different girl. How long have you guys been together?
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