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writes: From time to time, my ex still gets in touch with me. We have been broken up for several months now. At first our break-up was so messed up, we were bitter towards each other for months. But 3 months ago, he made peace with me that we decided to just let go of the past and become friends atleast. I wasn't expecting it to be a very good friendship between us but several times, he would contact me for some personal stuff. Then he told me that I can just call him anytime I need his help though I rarely called. We only get in touch like 3 times a month but we don't do sex at all. Just talk about what's up with both of us.This week, I sent him a message for a bit of help regarding my house and he called after a minute telling me that he was thinking of calling me as he saw a friend of mine and it reminded him of me. He was about to call me when he received my text message. We spoke on the phone and we talked like we are good friends like the past had not happened at all.Anyway, this has made me think for some days now and ask myself why he is still around even though we said before that we should forget each other and live our separate lives.To be honest, I still love him. But do you think he still loves me? What are the odds?I don't really mind if we get back together or not but I just wanna know your opinion dear aunts if this guy feels the way I do right now.Thanks in advance.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 This one is a bit odd, in that he doesnt appear to have unterior motives, he hasnt made a move on you, in fact he sounds like a decent guy.
I think the best thing to do is to continue as you are for a while, maybe you are both still in a space of 'licking your wounds' after the bitter break up.
Dont push for any think more for now, just adopt a wait and see attitude and see what happens over the next month or so
good luck which ever way it goes
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