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writes:Please take this seriously. Me and my boyfriend have been trying to have sex for a while, we have been going out for 5 years and trying for the last few months. It is really hurting me, and it is becoming unpleasant, we just end up arguing.He has an 11 inch penis, which I didn't know was unusual until I researched about it. Could this be the reason why it is painful for me?Thanks for any help you can give me. Reply to this Question
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reader, mitten82  +, writes (27 November 2009):
wow. 11. personally I am only 8.5 and my girlfriend has pain. and well, 11, that's just murder. lol and I am sure his proportional too, being that he is thick too. if you must, try missionary and keep him at a distance, and tell him to pull out before he orgasms so he doesn't get a bright idea into doing the instinctual thing and shove it all in. keep yourself lubricated too and if it helps, have him hold it during if need be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): Surely he is hitting your cervix, which cannot be at all comfrotable for you?
As "DoubleM" says, he should only put half ot it in - fit a cock ring to it to prevent it going in too far!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (20 November 2009):
 To be honest with you, I'm glad that I'm a man of good size but nothing close to 11 inches. That is almost ridiculous. I think that he should simply use about half of his size rather than plunging most or all of it - if he cares about your comfort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): 11 inches is about double the normal size.
So yeah it must be uncomfortable.
Ill answer simply ok. Firstly lots of foreplay (you have to cum ok) If you dont masturbate.. start
Secondly: lots of lubrication and tell him to go very slowly and allow you to get used to it. give it time and you will adjust
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (20 November 2009):
Yes, it probably is, a guy I had intercourse was so big that I would bleed after intercourse. You might try lubricant it could help ease things up a bit. Some women can handle big, but some women cannot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): well thats big! just tell him to go easy dont stick it in all the way at first until your comfortable and maybe use ALOT of lube, maybe see if he can go a little soft but hard enough to get it into you that might help a little with the pain, maybe get a dildo that is roughfly the size of him and that way there you can controle it and possibly streach yah a litle bit to make it more comfortable and enjoyable for you, hope this helped, and good luck
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reader, lazyman87 +, writes (20 November 2009):
this is difficult to take seriously, has he considered a career in porn? ;)
seriously, i think it would be an idea to use fingers before vaginal sex, to get you as wet as physically possible. that would lubricate your vagina and theoretically make it less painful. you could try lubes like KY jelly too.
best of luck x
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