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writes:Has anyone dealt with and know what a Passive Aggressive man is? I am in the midst of a two year battle of divorce because he continues to lie and drag his feet to produce things needed for court etc. He says he is " praying for me". He lies about eveything it seems...yet says " you twisted it" and yet can never produce the documents or proof to my lawyer requests. Bottom line. It is absoluly maddening...I read lots of info and he is full fledged p.a. I have heard dont let them see you sweat...and then I have heard call them on it. ( the lies). He can talk himself out of anything but I end up with more frustation...his normal comments are thats not what I saidyes Im going tono I haventWell I was going to but you....The list is endless and the trust is gone. The worst part is how angry he makes me...and thatss my issue to deal with. Im working through that as I bought my own home and moved out and he now is livid. Ive been told its a control the pa person is after. So moving out has increased his bad behavior. Anyone out there with any tips! Thanks! Tracie
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2009): thanks so much....knowing Im not crazy and this is real helps me cope...ok I will continue to work on " not letting him see me sweat" thanks for taking the time...Tracie
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reader, lola80  +, writes (20 November 2009):
Hi Sorry to hear what your gowing through , and glad because you have seemed to answer the question your asking yourself , he 100% sounds PA an maybe a little narcisstic and controling , it sounds like he has been very much in control in your relationship and doesnt want to let go and will say and do anything to keep up the contact If i were you i would cut all contact with him , and what you have to do is stop giving him any reaction , if you have to deal with his lies , just say in a calm way " oh is that right " maybe your right !! he will soon stop if you dont get up on stage with him anytime he feels like pulling your strings and getting a reaction out of you when he wants , he knows what hes doing and sounds like he is playing games Well done you for leaving now leave it to his solicitor yours or a judge and cut contact and dont respond to him Take care
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