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anonymous
writes:My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be attracted to the other girl more than me and maybe cheat or fall out of love with me doing this? i know it probably sounds stupid but it running through my head. I do like the sound of having sex in front of someone it turns me on but i just keep having this doubt. Please help!
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reader, MsFrankie +, writes (21 November 2009):
 Buy yourself - and read a book called 'The Ethical Slut' - it's actually nothing about being a 'slut' it's about bringing other people into your sex life in a way that is loving and caring towards your partner. I would seriously recommend it. You probably will feel very jealous - but if this is something that you want to experiment with then you will need to learn to communicate this jealously openly to your partner in a way that he will be able to accept. He will probably also feel jealous - I think this is a part of what makes it so exciting! But you will need to work out a way of reassuring each other while still exploring your sexual fantasies. Good luck.
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