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writes:i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around.my looks are ok but all of my family say i am beautiful and my mum's friends say i could be a model. i have been called ugly all of my life by people at school and i have started to believe it!!!! i know it sounds a bit silly but it's been 10 years i have been called that so i just go along with it. xxjamie-leaxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): I really dont want to sound bigheaded but just for the purposes of this I will say what I know is the truth.I am really really pretty and am now 16 but I havent had a boyfriend since I was 13.My bestfried is as much as I feel mean saying it, nowhere near as pretty as me. So when she gets boyfriends she tries to rub it in my face. She doesn't have the nicest personallity either as you may be able to tell. However, she is also really pathetic when it comes to boys (won't hold hands, kiss, etc) so now a lot of people are fed up with her. My point is getting boyfriends really isn't that important because people really do not care that much about it no matter what they say. I now have a boyfriend who actually thinks it's rather cute that I haven't been out with all these other boys but am still mature about the relationship. When you get a boyfriend all depends on luck and timing... You need to be in the right place at the right time and it will just happen although I do now how bad it can feel.good luck .x.
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reader, A1exander123 +, writes (20 November 2009):
Don't worry, im 14 and haven't had a Gf, but i don't really care. I mean, I like my friends but don't get me wrong i'd still go out with someone.
Basically, it's normal for someone around 14 to never have had a Bf or Gf, one'll come eventually.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 When I was 14 I was ugly, like, seriously ugly. But I blossomed, I'm actually quite pretty now. Chances are you'll look way better as you get older. Most of the people I know didn't get their first boyfriend until they were 16 or 17. It's completely normal to not even have your first kiss till then.
good luck
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reader, champilyn  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 I'm 20 and I never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, at least that's what people say, though I really have a BIG mouth, and I tend to over talk. so it's a problem too. I also want a boyfriend, but I seem to drive boys away. So, I think you're pretty much normal. 14 is still young. ^_^ besides, when you're pretty and nice, maybe boys don't want to approach you because they're intimidated, or even RESPECT you too much ^_^
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): Hey!Try not to listen to people's childish remarks. Brush it off because those people are just childish and need someone to upset because they haven't got anything better to do. Usually they call you allsorts because they have insecurities of their own. So pay no attention to them.Trust me, you'll find someone. It took me until I was 19. Finding someone special takes time. It didn't bother me too much that I didn't have my first boyfriend at 13-14 whatnot...just because everyone else had one. I remember it did make me feel lonely whenever I was around my friends because they all had girlfriends and boyfriends and I didn't. But I wasn't going to find someone just so I didn't feel leftout.Remember striking up a potential relationship requires a spark of common interest and curiosity with someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): It doesn't matter and it means nothing.I'm 17, never had a boyfriend and never come close to having one. I don't think there's ever been one guy who's actually liked me but that doesn't bother me.I know that it's not me. Like you, there's nothing wrong with me. I have a good personality and I'm a decent person. I'm not particularly ugly. I just haven't met anyone.You're family are perfectly right, and you sound as if you know it. I don't need to see you to tell you that you're pretty. The people who know you best like your family are always honest with you, and they're also able to see the best in you. So listen to them, they speak the truth. One day somebody will be able to see what they see to.Ignore people at school. Chances are they're jealous or feel insecure themselves and are trying to put you down for them to feel better.You know who you are. You're only 14 so there's plenty of time for someone to fall in love with you.Good Luck. X
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): Why they call you ugly? Probably to get your attention, or because they think they are cool, or whatever. They are kids. So are you. Yes I know, 14 you might think you're older than you are, but give it another 10 years and look back and you'll know that at 14 you really didnt have a clue. No offence, my point is just this: when I was little, up to the age of 16, I wasnt called pretty exactly. People at school called me a skeleton, I was bullied when I was in junior high and guys called me ugly. I never bought into it, and guess what? Guys tell me Im beautiful all the time now. All my friends tell me I am. I know girls who are jealous of me. Bottom line is: you probably are beautiful. Even Tyra Banks was bullied and told she was ugly, no one says that anymore.I didnt have a boyfriend until I was 18. And I didnt have my first REAL relationship with feelings involved until I was 19. Hope that helps. Find someone you like and who likes you, and not just a boy to call your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): hey jamie-lea, i had the same problem seriously bullied since 5 years of age, and i just kept it all bottled up. tell people but the boyfriend thing will happen in due time your still young the right lad for you will come along when you least expect it...good luck
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