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Are these the signs that he has a crush on me or dislikes me!?

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Question - (20 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok, so - my fitness instructor who I have had a crush on for about 3 years has been acting weird with me lately. I assumed I had offended him but my mum says it sounds like he likes me.

I facebooked him to ask if I could be added to a guest list for a class he was organising and he added me as a friend. I wanted to talk to him - say hi in the next class but I was a bit shy and he always has swarms of people around him so didn't. I have said hi every now and again and posted on his wall once. For a few classes he showed me a bit more attention that normal but only in a 'let me show you how to do it right way.' Anyway - then he starts to disable and then reenable his profile quite a bit so it keeps on disappearing and then reappearing - then it disappears for ages. I thought he had signed off but in class he said to everyone - look me up on facebook - so I did and it seems he has cancelled his own profile, started another one and not readded me as a friend - but everyone else he has.

Now in class he has started to act strange with me. He seems nervous and will not look me in the eye when he is talking to me. If he talks to a group of us he will look at everyone except for me - only giving me flitting glances. But at the same time he felt the need to tell me that there was a social happening after class next week.

What is going on!? You reckon I should try my luck? ;)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 November 2009):

You might as well. He seems interested, and might not be able to say anything because of his work. But nothing ventured, nothing gained, and as long as you're both single, why not see what happens? Good luck.

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