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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok, my boyfriend and i love each other. He lives an hour and a half away. Things are really hard because he is really busy working 60+ hours a week and doesn't have anytime to really call or answer my texts. I feel like we aren't dating, that all there is between us is love. I don't feel like i ask too much from him, i want him to tell me that he loves me too and say good morning and good night every day like he used to. So over the weekend, i became extremely drunk, to the point where i didn't remember much, but i do remember that i hooked up with another guy. I don't know why i did it. It was fun but i feel like shit about it. I don't know if i should tell my boyfriend or forget about it and move on, or should i be honest? Ive questioned our relationship a lot and i don't know what to do. He would never find out because i haven't told anyone and the guy is married so he cant tell, and my boyfriend doesn't live here and he doesn't know my friends well enough to ever know. Do i let him go? Or do i just tell him? Or do i move on and learn from it? I never thought that i would be the kind of person to ever cheat on anyone, and it will never happen again.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (25 September 2008):
 Don't tell him. If you know it was a mistake and you wont do it again then why break his heart and tell him. He doesnt have to know as that was in the past. Once you tell him it will course so many problems and he proberly wont EVER trust you again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): He deserves to know the truth.
He has a right to decide how he is going to handle this situation. You don't have the right to decide for him.
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