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41-50,
anonymous
writes:well people i have ben on a relationship for the past 4 years and this is the first time i last so long with a girl. i got my heart broken back in jr high ever since i talk my self to not have feelings for none but this girlfriend love me so much you guy wont even know how much. anyway the problem is that i was careless , cold person , trated like shit scream at her all the time i was a verbal abuser and im so guilty and i regrated . 5 days ago she deside to break up , but she told me are you going to do something about it because as soon as i get in that car is over and i say go away i wont stop you so she left. that night i was very very upset because i started to have feelings like real fellings for her like thoes 4 years yes i like her but not love her you know. so after she left i started to feel like i couldnt breathe and i was suffocated, and the next day wake up crying for her because i reilize that i did love her all that time but it was to late. now she is really hurt, her dad dont want me to get back with her and she is confused. we talked about it and she say that she is going to get back with me but she have a big scar in her heart she told me that all that love she had for me was turning into hate and thats why im writeing this letter because i dont know how to make her feel better. i do love her she got does feeling out of me and i need some help. she is the only girl i introduce to my family, and from the moment she asked me 'are you sure you are not going to do nothing to make me think diffrent' i say no and from that moment i knew i lost her for ever. didnt care at the time because i didnt know if i really had feelings for her, but now o know that she is the love of my life and i hope GOD isnt to late so if you guys can helpme pleas do.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008): dont give up thats the point.probably she will refuse you for a while becouse she would want to be sure that you really love her or it is just about winning back.i m having the same problem like your girl and i m not answering his calls or replying his messages for 3 days,it doesnt mean i dont want him back or stop loving him.it means we have to be sure that this time you guys will put some afford and wont break our hearths again.so never give up if you love.
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reader, L VIC +, writes (23 September 2008):
just make her feel good about her self and dont verbal abuse her any more
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A
male
reader, L VIC +, writes (23 September 2008):
treat the girl like a queen man and dont fight with her any more that will be a good start
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