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writes: My boyfriend has gone to new york for business for a month, he has asked me if i would like to go over there to see him and has said he would pay for everything, as he knows i earn nothing like whats he does, the problem is that i think he wants to finish our relationship, as i overheard him talking with his sister about me, do i go to new york and treat it as a holiday or do i not go knowing that he wants to call us a day.Thanx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): Go, free holiday anyway!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): Hi
I should have said im my original question is that my boyfriend earns money and has money that i could only dream of, his sister most proberly thinks that i am after his money as his ex wife and ex girlfriends have all been like that to him, the way that i see it is that its his money and that he has earnt it and have told her this, i wonder if that his sister thinks i am too young for him as there is a age gap off 22 years between us, he has been abit cold to me and this was after talking to his sister.
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reader, Sparkly82  +, writes (22 September 2008):
Hell yeah! You go on that holiday!
You've got the chance of going to New York...Free of charge!
Are you 100% he wants to end the relationship?
I think you should go on the holiday and you will then have a better understanding when you see him, if he wants to end things by the way he is acting.
You have the opportunity of a holiday of a lifetime, don't let a guy spoil it for you :-)
And even if he does end it, there are plenty guys out there and hey, you've got a free holiday out of it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): Logic tells me that's not his intention. There are far less expensive ways of finishing a relationship. Maybe he was telling his sisters what they wanted to hear? Unless you tell us what you overheard we can't comment on that aspect.
No harm in asking him about what you overheard, before making any decision one way or the other about going to NY to see him, surely?
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 Go, because this is his way of trying to break up with you face to face, instead of over the phone.
But if you would prefer phone, just don't go and tell him that you know what's up.
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