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My boyfriend's ex is threatening to steal him from me. Help!

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Question - (22 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *abygirl91 writes:

My Boyfriends Ex Girlfriend Told Me That She Has Seriously Thinking About Dating MY Boyfriend. She Told Me The Only Reason Why I Still Have Him Is Because She Knows Hes HAppy With Me.

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fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:28 PM): see one thing you should know is that i know what robert wants and what he'd do for me and lately ive been thinking about actually trying to date him the only thing is i wont think seriously about it because i think he should be happy with you thats the on ly reason you still have him right now dont make me rethink myself

bomagi: (09/21/2008 06:29 PM): okay. i hope roberts completely happy with me

fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:31 PM): he is and i know that if i change my mind about him he would leave whoever hes with for me but i dont want to ruin a the wonderful friendship i told my friend that and she got a jealous feeling for a min

fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:31 PM): i just laughed

bomagi: (09/21/2008 06:31 PM): shes jealous of who?

fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:32 PM): the fact that if she ever had another chance with your bf hed leave her for me in a heartbeat

bomagi: (09/21/2008 06:33 PM): yeahh.. my bf is really happy with me. but i am scared about alot of things now

fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:34 PM): like what?

bomagi: (09/21/2008 06:34 PM): idk. im just scared he will leave me over something retarded again i dont want him to leave

fatel1: (09/21/2008 06:35 PM): he wont unless u do something retarded and the thing is you might think its retarded but he dont

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (23 September 2008):

Tremor agony auntAsk yourself this: If he is happy with you, WHY would he leave you for her? She is his ex, and that is probably for a reason. If she 'knows what he likes' then why did they break up?

It sounds to me like this girl is just trying to stir things up. Have you talked to your boyfriend about this? Perhaps you should. Let him know what this girl has been saying, and see what he thinks. Odds are, he is completely happy with you, and she is just talking out of her behind.

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