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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I will not go into detail about my own problem just yet, i just needed to ask this question:Guys,are you put off in any way when a girl is usually the one to make a first move? I know guys are generally lazy and some are blind to see that a girl waits for the guy to make an effort. But for example, is it a put off in any way when a girl always starts the conversation through text messaging, or online chats? Does that show desperate and thus make the guy want to go for a girl who plays harder to get?Also, WHY do guys not put in too much effort, does it mean they are not interested?Please help!!The guy i am referring to, suprisingly sparks an amazing conversation between him and I...but I'm always the one to start the conversation 95% of the time! I don't want to look desperate, as i am not, i just love talking to him, as he does me, but he doesn't show as much effort!thank you!A question for all guys/men..and if females know the answer please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): I am a teenager also and I'll admit that when a girl is always making the first move it does turn me off. I dont know why but even girls i've liked have started to get on my nerves when there always coming up to me and stuff. You should start conversations every once in a while to show the guy you like talking to them but don't do it too much if they're not starting conversations with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): I don't know quite why it is, maybe genes or something, but for some reason unfathomable to a mere man, women are able to strike up a conversation with just about anyone at any time. Put a bunch of women together and they'd feel abnormal if they didn't spend the next couple of hours talking about anything and everything.
Put a bunch of men together and they don't actually feel the need to talk or keep up a scintillating hours long conversation with each other just for the sake of it.
He's just being a man, and you're just being a woman. That's the only way I can describe it!
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