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How can I survive being the 3rd wheel when I love her?

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Question - (22 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *iving Up writes:

This is some much a question then the fact that i just need some re-ensuring that what im doing is right..

ok here it is, my best friend likes another one of friends, and she likes him (they have both admitted it) ... them like eaching has just recently started and i have been trying to help my best friend win her over, so far so good no problem yet...

now heres where theirs a problem

I LOVE HER!!!!!!!!!

So they dont go out yet but i want them to so they can both be happy but in truth i want them run into problems that may, slow things down abit, and hopefully there feelings for eachother sub-side before things get off the ground...

any help would be nice... PLEASE!!!

- also one tidd bit of info, she has never been in a relationship, or ever even kissed so i have dreamed for months to be her first....

-and there both my best friends how can i survive near them going out as i become a third wheel?

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A female reader, J_M United Kingdom +, writes (23 September 2008):

J_M agony auntfirst of all, i just wanna say -

UR ONLY 15 TOPS!

ok so if i was this girl, then i would want u to fess up. even if she tells u to take a hike and ur best m8 hates u, then u would have said it and wont regret it. live everyday like its ur last. anything could happen. on the other hand of course u dont want ur m8 to hate ya. erm, tricky situation. well im not sure how the skl system works over ur side of the pond, but if u were here and were 15 then u only have a year left b4 u leave for collage, and i dont know if u would go the same way as her. u night be wastin time!

a friend of mine recently moved to a different country. i wish i told him how i felt towards him. and now hes gone. TELL HER!!!!

J_M

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