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writes:Dear Cupids,I have a bit of a strange problem.I've been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and a half. I love her and (hopefully) she loves me. But that's not the problem. Before i started seeing my girlfriend, I was set up on a blind date with a friend of a friend. We went out for a couple of drinks and had a good laugh. But there was nothing there. There was no spark or attraction, but we enjoyed each others company. Just before the end of the night we both said that nothing was going to happen so we exchanged numbers and said we'll become friends. After a month we had met up a couple of times and had drinks as mates. Then one night i went to a party of the friend who set us up. Obviously she was there and we started chatting. She then started to try and get me with a girl but I keep on saying no because i was Chicken (and sober).After a bit of Dutch courage I built up the strength to talk to a girl who was at the party. We hit it off and I got her phone number. She is now my girlfriend. In April my girlfriend and I moved into a flat together. We had a big party to celebrate and invited everyone. During this party my friend started acting wired. she was flirting with me. She never does this before so I was shocked. She was slightly drunk so I just put it down to the drink. But since that night my friend has been making my life hell. She has texted me none stop. Literally 15 texts a day. Without fail. Telling me how she loves me and needs me. She also sent so nude pictures of her to me. And to my girlfriends phone. After my girlfriend sent a text back asking why? She said "sorry, I thought it was "Jays (me)" Phone." It took me about a week to convince my girlfriend that I have been doing anything with her. Last week she also called my girlfriend to say she was pregnant with my baby. She wasn't and was clearly lying. All of my friend who know her have said shes stopped eating and is constantly ill. I've Tried to speak to her and say stop. But it just encourages her to think up other ways to ruin my life. Its caused a real strain on me and my girlfriend.What the hell do I do? I've tried ignoring it but she keeps on doing worse and worse things. I even phoned the police and they just laughed at me. Help!J xP.s so sorry for the length and thanks a million for reading all of it.
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reader, pagenheart  +, writes (15 November 2008):
sounds like you screwed herand you like the attention ,meet her with your new gfriendand tell her that you love your girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008): iF this girl is pregnent with your child (surely not) wait a few months..she'll be showing. (she isnt) unless it some one elses baby and shes saying its yours. As for pictures....you can block numbers....get new phones, ne numbers, she'll never know....unless ppl tell her. I know theres some way to block incoming texts (i think). Dont ignor it, she'll do it more.
Im sorry,
Best of luck!
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