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writes: I transferred to a new school and met a friend who i went over to her house.Well we went down and hungout with this guy that has a girlfriend but i liked him.We were hanging out in an unfinished house climbing around and he had to help me down and grab on to me to help me up and everything,well my feelings grew everytime he looked at me or talked and when i got home plus all weekend i can't stop thinking about him i can't sleep or eat. and he has been with his girlfriend for 4 weeks about he said i don't want to get in between them but i love him sooo much.He is so sweet. What should i do???Help Please!
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reader, [email address blocked] +, writes (26 September 2008):
You dont love him, your in lust sweetheart.. Be his friend, sit back and see what happens.. Love can never be forced upon anyone. Play the game hun! Ask him about his girlfriend,find out what she is like. be interested in his life, Find out what he likes Try making him feel comfortable talking to you but In a nonchalant way.. You dont want to seem too interested. And be confident! Remind your self of all the good qualities that you have.. CONFIDENCE IS EVERYTHING!!
and They have only been dateing for 4 wks, things cant be that serious..
Be His Friend, and he will come to you, promise!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (22 September 2008):
 Being "the new person" isn't a very easy thing to do. I think that it would be very easy to "latch on" to some sweet and interesting guy MAYBE because you are feeling out-of-sorts and uncomfortable and falling head-over-heels very quickly would be a great distraction from simply trying to fit in. If I were in your shoes, I would be worried about how I would actually be perceived by all of my new potential friends right now. Going after someone else's boyfriend, even if they have only been going out for one month, might give you a label that you don't want that might follow you around in your new location! It may lose you a lot of potential friends as well.
For the time being, I'd keep him as a friend (NO flirting) and hope that they break up...
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