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Please explain to me why I feel this way whenever I see my ex?

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Question - (22 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 September 2008)
A female Haiti age 30-35, *wannaloveme writes:

Hi everyone,

I have been in a relationship for 7 months now and Im very much in like with my boyfriend... I love him.

This is bassically the story, before my current boyfriend there was this boy that I was TOTTALLY CRAZYABOUT, I was with him for 4 months but I had my prsonal histories with him. I was with him for a lil then broke up for nine but I was still madly in love with him for the whole 9 months.

I went out with him again because I couldn't get over him. we broke up again after 4 months, and like I said I was crazy about him, just so stupidly blindly dumbly in love with him.

Now I have a boyfriend, but everytime I see my ex - my hearts pump real fast and my knees become very shaky and I just lose myself, as if i'm still in love wit him.

I never think about him or dream about him or miss him or nothing, he's outta my life for good, but what I dont understand is why do i get like this when I see him?...Is that normal?

Please explain it to me.

Help.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (29 September 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntMaybe it's just obsession.

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A female reader, iwannaloveme Haiti +, writes (22 September 2008):

iwannaloveme is verified as being by the original poster of the question

iwannaloveme agony auntNot only that I dnt wanna love him again I actually dnt... I dnt feel anything for him I dnt think about him...

I want u to understand I dnt think about tis guy and I dnt c myself with him...

While I was eit him I couldn't wait to have the courage 2 say goodbye...

I didn't mention that my current and my x were and are still friends

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (22 September 2008):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntYou are supressing your love for him, and when you see him, it comes out.

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