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My girfriend and I have been together for four years and we have had a great relationship, but recently she wanted some time from me, to figure out if she really wants to be with me, she feels the spark is not there anymore, I love her sincerely, is

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Question - (22 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 23 September 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been dating my gf for almost 4 years and we both deeply love each other. We have been through it all together and it has made us and our love stronger. Recently after things had been going great she felt as though the spark was lost and that she wanted to make sure she wanted to be with me. We have talked about future plans and being with each other forever but now being that she is graduating and we are moving on with our lives she is feeling unsure. She asked for a break and we both got emotional because we both knew it was hard thing to do. I still hold great hope we will be back together at some point however the thought of the possibility of losing her forever is eating me alive. What do I do I love this girl with all of my heart and I know she loves me, but how can I make myself ok and her realize the spark is still there?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2008):

okay what i think you should do is you and her go off somewhere quiet so yall can just talk and sit her down and tell that girl how you feel about her and that its hard for you to let her go cuz your feeling are strong for her cuz if a man loved me how you say you love her i wouldnt even think about moving on but do as i say get on your knees if you have to and tell her how you feel from deep within tell her you dont want or need nobody elsa but her but i hope it works out for you cuz you seem like a lover not a fighter and them kinds are the best

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