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I'm tired of either waiting around or having to initiate contact?

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Question - (17 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,

Ok, I really [REALLY] like this guy in one of my classes at college. At first I didn't notice him but after we had to do this group project (we had to spend the afternoon together), I started to develop feelings for him.

My 'relationship' with him is going really weirdly. One week, he be all flirty with me, and the next very distant. I think he likes me (judging by the way he acts when he is being flirty), but his distant moods are confusing me.

I got really tired of waiting around for him to do something, so I asked him for his email. He gave it to me...and we have talked on MSN for a grand total of...2 convos :(. I have him on Bebo...but we never really talk. We dont talk out of class, which is incredibly annoying. The time we really got to talk was when we were getting the bus together once. It was really great...but idk if he was just using me for company.

How can I get him to do something... I'm tired of either waiting around or having to initiate contact?

Thanks

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2008):

Well it looks like he doesn't like you as much as you like him or he would have asked you out by now.

You can keep talking to him online and try and make a connection with him so he gets to like you... but you risk being obvious about it.

Or you can just back off and leave him to it.

It's his loss. Go out with your girl friends and have some fun shopping or dinner to forget about him for a while.

Good Luck!! xx

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