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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I need help here, my boyfriend is very introverted ( very very) and I am very extroverted, I like him just the way he is, I am inlove with him in that way, when we are together everything is perfect, he does everything for me ( we normally see each other 3 times a week) but sometimes when we are not together he can go like 2 days with out having any contact with me unless I will initiate it. He is the kind of person that needs time alone for himself, he is not out with his friends drinking in bars or anything like that, he is just at home doing stuff in his computer, he is a very quiet guy. We share strong feelings for each other. At the begining I was concerned that all what he wanted was just sex, but then he has tell me over and over again that if I don't want, we don't have to have sex. How to deal with a person like this? he does everything to please me, he remember everything about me (things I like, things I don't like). So how someone that is telling you that has strong feelings for you can be with out contacting you for like 2 days, has someone pass for something like this? I want to clarify that i am not a needy person. We have been together for 8 months, I am his first important relationship. Some views please Reply to this Question
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reader, 1trainer1  +, writes (17 October 2008):
He is a classic case of a loner, he wants to be with you but doesn't want you to change as he loves you for what you are, he gives you space and trusts that you will be in touch, he is always there when you need him....
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