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We are only good friends but since I've been told he likes this girl I realised I want him for myself, should I tell him?

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Question - (17 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was messed around a lot a while ago, by someone i really liked for ages. I'm pretty sure thats all over, though he sometimes tries it on again, but i'm trying not to fall for any of that again. I hadn't liked anyone since him, and it took a long time to get over him.

I was beginning to think i'd never fancy anyone again, and then a couple of weeks ago i was talking this guy who i'm really good friends with, and my stomach just completely flipped, and i found myself really jealous of this girl he'd been spending lots of time with, because i don't see and talk to him quite as much as i used to. And now i've been told he likes her, and every time he mentions her i just feel really sad and jealous.

He's so sweet and always playfully teasing me and chatting and we get on so well, and i've never imagined him as more than a friend ever before, its so confusing. I don't want us to drift apart and i don't know whether, if i told him, it might make that even worse.

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A female reader, catsleeps Hong Kong +, writes (17 October 2008):

probably u could take a step back and think twice

stimes such stuff might ruin or make the frenship go sour ( if it is serious)

or may be a lil awkward when u see each others.

perhaps, u may drop a few hints?

=)

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