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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well me and my boyfriend has been going out for 6 months. We went out months before but two his ex girlfriend came back into his life. Supposably he was confused and didn't know what to do. In the end he chose me because he "loved" me the most. A month into the second attempt in the relationship I find inappropriate txt messages on his phone being sent to her as well as several phone calls to and from her. I question him and he lies the first time saying its his cousin in la. Hours later i find out it is her due to a close friend of ours and he then tells the truth covering it up saying she was annoying him and he just said those things to make her shut up. she wouldnt stop texting so for me he changed his number. things went well for 4 months but somehow she got his number again and here comes the blasting of the text messages again. the same reason comes up saying shes annoying him alot and the only reason he responds is because shes annoying him. im really fed up with her attempting to come back into his life. i dont know what to do. i have talked to him about it and he says i have nothing to worry about. but i know that when im not with him, hes sending messages to her. it hurts alot and ive tried to just ignore it but i cant when the phone is going off the hook and he is always checking his phone. i want to believe that what he is telling me is the truth but its really hard. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2008): He's lying, you know he's lying, why are you putting up with it? I would tell him, "if you want her that bad, then go back to her and stop lying about it. I don't need this." You deserve better than this, sweetie. And why don't you call the girl yourself or text her and tell her to get a life? But if your guy is encouraging her..then its time to break things off.
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